all know that it is always sad and painful drag life when love was not received, especially from parents during childhood. Anyone who has studied even a little human being, I will say that the first five years of life left an indelible mark for all life, for better or for worse. Therefore, to deprive a child of love is to deprive of fertilizer to a tree begins to grow, but the beat is like putting poison, it will kill off psychologically, emotionally, or rather will grow mortally wounded. But there are bumps and knocks, some blows draw blood or leave bruises, even a bad shot can lead to death, but there are other more subtle to be seen, but which are recorded on a low heat not only in mind but in the identity of that child or that child. Recorded in his "I" and the fruits of these shots are going to be emotional after their relationships with significant others and their relationship with the world.
I would talk a little more detail on those shots, which only see or hear who's giving, but not think about the future and terrible consequences that will bring in their children.
is clear, that when repeated physical beatings, but especially the psychological or emotional love is depleted. We adults know how painful silence, perhaps more than offensive words. That silence is the worst punishment, now imagine a child who has not done anything and was not speaking, not hugs and caresses it, how it is shaping its identity ... think about it.
Have you thought about the damage they do to their children, possibly many sometimes without realizing it, when instead of interacting with their young children are concerned of work, cleaning, etc., in an obsessive, perfectionist home? Slow-moving beats are defective form sculpture of his son.
silence and absence, when the child complains of small mistakes, but close your heart and your mouth when you do something well. For, example, when the child began kindergarten and made a drawing that four lines could be crossed, but that it was a work of art, rather than hug or praise, you kept silent. This occurs in the child learns to see only errors, but not good in their people.
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